Friday, May 27, 2005

u know… some men are irritatingly irresponsible, incomprehensible, inability to follow procedures plus has the innate ability making his own decisions without consulting management and then blame it on others when he is queried! argh! i have tried my best to detach and avoid any working/personal friendship with him cos he and i can’t co-exist without me feeling that i wanna jump down from the tallest building in rage!

now that i got that out… i can release the rage in my body in order to see the light of hope…(although i seriously think there is no way he can ever change but i’ll give him the benefit of a doubt!)

do u know, there are at least 3 hotel’s grand ballroom in KL that is booked for wedding dinners on the same day my brother is planning to have one? its either someone help me get some good connections to pull strings or my brother has to share ballrooms by reducing the table bookings to 35 or to change the date. mandarin oriental hotel is being a prick/snob at the moment by not even returning phonecalls. so dun care abt them... my mom and bro is pretty much fixed on renaissance... so will most likely change the wedding dinner date...

-I have always found that mercy bears richer fruits than strict justice. (Abraham Lincoln, 1809 - 1865, speech in Washington D.C., 1865)-

33 comments:

Unknown said...

Renaissance is beautiful but the staffs there are crap!

shennwye said...

i agree... but renaissance package is also simpler to choose for ppl who like things done easily...

Unknown said...

i don't like attending weddings, always end up making out with the maid of honour...

ellie ng said...

can i give a suggestion?oh wait...does it have to be in a ballroom in some hotel,or can it be somewhere different?coz my sis had hers at a house in d'sara heights called passion road.it's simple and beautiful.

btw,dont bother with mandarin oriental...the employees are pretty much useless when it comes to pressure.might end up screwing up the whole nite.

what about shang?or concorde?if u're really desperate,i can try to get u marriot.

shennwye said...

think hotel will be easier cos spore family is coming over.

i called marriott but their ballroom is booked.

mandarin is a pain in the ass... they are such snobs!

concorde ballroom not very nice though.. ceiling is low... shang is too pricey!

ellie ng said...

theres always ritz...

shang's pricey,but well worth the money.if it's a slight difference, might as well.but a lot of ppl getting married these few months...supposedly very good timing worh.

btw,were u in bangsar village today?thought i saw u.

shennwye said...

yes martin, u can bounce at my bro's wedding.. pls keep 18 or 19 feb 2006 free yeah! :oP

no rajes, u may not sleep with the maid of honour... but u may help martin at the bouncer area...

ellie, yea.. was looking at the sky at bangsar village :oP hehe

Unknown said...

you sure you want Darth Rajes and Martin SkyWalker to work side by side?

Unknown said...

if you insist, i'll be there but i'm not responsible for the maid of honour's innocence!!!

may the Darkside be stron in you!, fear me you shall *cue lightning*

shennwye said...

looks like my job as wedding coordinator is going along fine! i've got 2 bouncers with a reputation... the lightside martin skywalker and the darkside darth rajes... so i'm expecting lightside to protect the maid of honour yeah!!! :oP

ellie ng said...

what about me?whats my job?can i usher in eligible handsome men????

shennwye said...

ellie.. of course u can usher in the eligible men! let me ask my bro whether he has any brad pitt lookalike that u can steal away ;oP

shennwye said...

martin.. don't worry.. u don't look anything like a pretty boy ;o)

and i agree that most pretty boys are either gay/dickheads... as proven by my fling/ex!

Anonymous said...

hellos...
hmmmm....having martin AND rajes as bouncers??!! wow! BRAVE indeed, you are!! *winks*

Anonymous said...

I agree with ellie. Shangri-la has the best tasting food for hotels. The little extra cost is well worth. We(it was my brothers wedding, he was working in spore too so i had to help out over here) finally went for Marriotts as Shang was booked. Everything went pretty well.Very grand ballroom and the rooms were nice too. Food was not excellent but good enough. Renaissance was one of the choices too but coz the ballroom was to be shared(just like u mentioned), it didnt look as good and 35 was too few tables, so we let it go. How about Westin, the new Hilton and Meridien? I dont know anything about them but i didnt see u mentioning.

Another tip, u can negotiate to change certain things in the package which u think will be a better choice(which is not offered in the package). For example, ice swans or flower arches can be replaced with say, seat covers with ribbons(yes u have to pay for them) or the use of their sound system, or a room :P etc. It's better if u accummulate all the thing u dont want in the package and then negotiate for the things u want in exchange. Different hotels provide different things, so it depends on how generous the hotel representative is(coz it probably affects their commission!) and how good ur negotiation skills are *wink*.

Well, thats a little tip for u from my experience. Hope it helps. If u think i can help u more, just post it and ask ya. I'll be most happy to help u if i can.

ellie ng said...

ric...note my words..."usher in eligible HANDSOME men"...not you, sayang. :P

i'm not attracted to pretty boys.i want real men,as previously mentioned...pretty boys dont seem to be able to ignite desire in me.

actually,shenn...try to avoid the new hilton...so far,i've heard nothing but bad reviews from friends and relatives.meridien's pretty cheap,can give it a go.but i hafta wish ur bro luck,considering the plans are so last minute.

Anonymous said...

The wedding is 9mths(feb rite?) away. I think the timing is about right. My bro's was booked around 6mths before. But good luck anyway, this is JUST the beginning.

shennwye said...

shang and westin is a wee bit too pricey, klhilton and marriott's booked. concorde's ballroom ceiling too low. don't like sunway and meridien. we are pretty much set on renaissance. anonymous, thanks for the tip anyways :o) negotiation skills will be in motion soooon...:oP

hope all goes well... doesn't seem like so much trouble now... still within manageable tolerable level... hehe.. luckily i have a high tolerability level :oP

martin dear... are u high on something? i don't get the grass comment...:oP

Unknown said...

Shenn, to understand the grass comment, you have to watch the 'Friday' trilogy. and Jantan Man, do you have your own comics running?

hey Shenn, just an idea, why not have the reception on an open field, something like a golf course. they're doing that for our Graduation here. with plasma screens, and those blows all over. ofcourse the ladies are gonna have a hard time with their heels, but what the hell.

shennwye said...

wats the friday trilogy?

too troublesome to have the reception in an open field.
1) weather not suitable
2) ladies heel
3) too much hassle! :oP

ellie ng said...

friday trilogy?the ice cube movies?

Unknown said...

Eleanor, yup Ice Cube.

Shenn, put up those gorgeous looking white satin canopies, with floral decoratives all around, a red carpet down the middle, an Eden's Garden Swing up front for the bride and groom. Eric Clapton's 'Wonderful Tonight' playing in the background...

(man i should be a wedding planner)

shennwye said...

rajes... are u volunteering as a wedding planner??? i don't mind~ heheh...

new places to look at now.. my bro just instructed me to go ask about klcc convention centre and nikko hotel... anyone has any ideas abt these places??

Unknown said...

nikko hotel is behind citibank and klcc convention centre is, if i'm not mistaken, near symphony hall at suria itself.

errrm, me volunteer, err, you want me, Darth Rajes to plan weddings? you want fear, anger and hate as the theme or what?!

shennwye said...

i know where nikko hotel and klcc convention centre is... i was wondering whether anyone has any ideas to help me get information or give me some tips :oP or pull strings for me??

darth rajes... altho ur a sith lord, ur still sweetie at heart... so i can trust u with planning the wedding.

Unknown said...

for the pull strings and tip you need the con artist living at Seputeh, come to me for the brawn power and intimidation.

and don't la go spoiling my Sith Lord image by calling me a sweetie (like Darth Vader in Return of The Jedi)

ellie ng said...

erm martin...u do realize that at this point,rajes is the sweetie... and that you've just asked him to bring some of his sabre mates to a jacuzzi party,rite?:P

just wanted to make sure.

shennwye said...

ppssstt... ellie.. i think martin is a wee bit high on grass and magic mushrooms at the moment ;oP hehe...

Unknown said...

Martin SkyWalker, call me sweetie again and i'm gonna break your legs. no, i wont be attending your jacuzzi slumber party!!

Obi Wan Shennobi, this is all your fault, you will pay for this.

shennwye said...

awwww sweetie... dun pout! i'll buy u a lollipop! :oP

Unknown said...

your lollipop better be the best damn lollipop ever...

shennwye said...

of course its the best lollipop ever!! its the biiiggg gigantic ones with the bright rainbow swirly colours... mmmmmm mmmmmmm

Unknown said...

woo hoo. i have a huge lollipop waiting for me back home!!!